Does ur man tell u he is confused about u when having an argument?

So I asked my husband for his debit account number and routing number since I was paying our bills he normally always has it on hand I get up to use the restroom as I return he had left to the bedroom to lay down I didn't give him his debit card back I forgot.(it was left on our table ) safe we have no kids it would be lost

I continued with my day we got ready to go out ..

On our drive to get sushi he mentions how irresponsible I am talked shit about me .(note he got it on his own it was on the table)

I tell him 9m sorry I forgot to give it back I tell home give me a kiss there everything escalated .... He has super crazy and so did I ain't wasting a lot of messed up things on one of those things this is the second time he tells me that he is confused about me.....

Please give me an advice.or comment below