CHILD HOOD AND UPBRINGING ISSUES

When I get into relationships I notice my childhood & upbringing issues start to come out and my partner sees them and wonders why I am the way I am.

There are a lot of issues that make me the way I am.

Low Confidence due to sister being jealous of me growing up and my mother telling me I’m crazy.

Scared to mistakes due to my mother being over protective and making me feel like I caused every bad thing to happen to myself.

Hiding myself due to having to dim my light to keep from being attacked by sister.

Trust issues due to being hurt and feeling like it was done purposely to hurt me.

What should I do about these issues. Maybe discuss them with my partner.