Upset

My guy is mad at me cause I dont save money but he doesn't ethier I have money in my bank and money out away that he doesn't know of and hes getting mad at me cause I wont pay for our ids and I told him that he had so many chance when he got paid from his job to get them but he kept putting it off so now hes counti g on me to pay for them and then started talking about my mom and sisters and nieces and nephews I told him not to talk about them or disrespect them cause they ant doing it to him what should I do .....