How often do you and your significant other argue? Anything that throws off your vibes, date, night, etc. I feel like my boyfriend and I argue a lot compared to my past relationships. He feels like we barely argue at all. He tells me it’s my anxiety and all in my head but we get into at least 1 argument, yelling and ruining an evening together at least once a week so I’m curious if that’s normal for others🤔 We only see each other a few days a week. We don’t live together so I feel like we shouldn’t be arguing so much! He is so thoughtful and does a lot of nice things for me. Maybe I am overly sensitive but I feel like he should know that and adapt to me, as I try to adapt to him. He’s just more selfish than I am and is very impatient so he is quick to argue and eventually I get frustrated and argue back. I know I’m far from perfect myself but I feel like I try so hard and I constantly try to make the best out of every situation but our “vibes” are just off and we end up in an argument over something. We don’t fight over major things often. It’s usually like where we should eat, or him being irritated with me for talking too much or him not responding to me when I talk to him or we’re just in opposite moods. Sorry I’m rambling. This has been weighing on me and anytime I try to bring it up he tells me I need therapy and blames my thoughts on my anxiety and tells me I’m being irrational. I’m tired of him telling me I need therapy! I’ve thought he needs therapy for as long as I can remember. However I think that everyone needs therapy. He makes me feel so invalidated but I honestly don’t think he means to at all. He’s so aloof and just guides through life without a care in the world most of the time and I’m the opposite. I like a game plan and think about every aspect of what will come and happen and I worry a lot bc I do have anxiety. I doubt many people have read this far but please share your experience and shed some light if you have🙏🏽