My husband And I are not to the point of trying as my first is nine months and we have decided to wait awhile as our first was a big surprise….but I have a dilemma….our first has been so easy. I was fully prepared for sleepless nights, hard transitions, and all, but….it’s been pretty easy. I mean the first month was tough as we figured out sleep, BF, the norms, but after that first month it has been smooth. Just an easy going-super happy baby. And honestly, I’m afraid to have another. Like most are afraid because their first was super difficult, but I’m afraid for the opposite! I realized with our first I have little tolerance for lack of sleep and a lot of crying with lack of sleep…I’m so nervous we will end up having a child that is the opposite of our current. Really hard to please, won’t sleep, etc….. those who had easy first babies, how was your second baby? Was it okay? I’m sure when the time is right I will be more inclined and willing, but currently…I just can’t imagine our next being so chill and that worries me….