Rude and cruel neighbors

I need advice and opinions I guess I don’t know.

We live in a apartment complex, with many families so tons of kids. These two woman who live in an upstairs apartment in a building near ours next to common space dwill constantly slur words at the kids, threaten and actually spray them with a hose, and say they are going to hit them with their car. They have called the police on the kids for playing in the grass because they could hear them ( to which the police officers told them they aren’t doing anything wrong and just advised the parents to have them stay away from the “their area” since they clearly don’t like kids)

Well, we make sure the kids aren’t producing a crazy amount of noise (again this is a family apartment complex) and it’s during waking hours middle of the day, they don’t linger around their place at all ( may walk past it… again they live upstairs their balcony is upstairs.. and it’s an apartment complex they don’t own any part of it) the kids don’t touch their stuff or anything.

I guienuinly think they hate kids. But again you live in a apartment complex that is swarming with kids. They are aloud to blar their music and make noise and do whatever… but the second the kids are at the bus stop or outside playing respective they being assholes to the kids.

They often will just whip out their phones and start recording the kids for no reason. This really bugs me. I’ve kept my calm this entire time… haven’t said a single thing to these people yet ( they don’t look like the type of people you can have a civil conversation with) and I’m 9 months pregnant. Trying to keep my cool. I’ve just told the kids to stay away from that building as much as possible.

Sounds corny but I want to write them a letter ( feel like this would be more civil right now) and explain that without consent from the party of people(kids in this case and parents) in New York and if someone says don’t record me it is against the law to record, And tell them politely to back off the children.

I really want to knock on their door and say something…. My blood pressure though … and my end of pregnancy hormones won’t be able to stay calm as I’m a big mama bear. So I’m trying to figure out how to handle this or if I should just keep telling the kids to stay away ( which they have for the most part unless they are walking past their building which again is near a common area and hard to avoid sometimes)