The past year I’ve been experiencing a lot of confusion with my gender identity. I’ve never felt truly feminine or masculine. Most of the time I try to present myself as more masc because that’s how I feel most comfortable and confident but there are some days where I feel more fem. I’ve even recently started using she/they pronouns and thought about going by Valentine or Val. I’ve been going out with my bf for 2 years and we’ve known each other for 5 years. I know he loves me very much, we’ve even hint-hinted about growing old and owning cats together. I’m just scared to tell him about this because I don’t know how he’ll react and if he’ll still love me the same because he’s straight. Help?