Who’s wrong in this situation?

I’m 29 weeks pregnant. I’ve just picked back up sexual cravings. I mentioned to my husband of two years that I was craving sex tonight. I had done everything to make sure I didn’t lose the mood (made my favorite food, washed the bedding, relaxed most of the day, etc)

He said, ‘I’m not horny and I don’t want to send you into labor early. I read that sex in the third trimester will cause pre-term labor.’ I’ve been low risk my entire pregnancy and showed perfect scores on every test. Never had any reason for this.

So I asked, ‘so, you plan on not having sex with me for the rest of my pregnancy and healing period?’ I was hurt obviously. That was gonna be 16 weeks with no sex in a very active relationship. (Anywhere from 2-3 times a week)

He replied, ‘I just Don’t want to risk it.’

I dropped it and left it alone. I did my magic by myself because he refused to help and basically ignored me for a couple days because he swears I’m going to throw myself into pre-term. After a couple days he started doing the works. Kissing, cuddling, spoiling. Trying to have sex. I won’t have sex with him because the only things I can think about is the fact he told me no a couple days ago and used the pregnancy as an excuse. Now he keeps telling me that I should have known it wasn’t going to last. Yeah I did but, that doesn’t mean it didn’t hurt me when you said no for days and ignored for a couple days because I took it in my hands. I plan on having sex with him eventually but right now I just can’t. It’s hurts.

Who is wrong, him and i reacted perfectly fine?

Or me, who is overreacting?