I'm planning on going over seas from U.S to visit my mother in law and sister in law who are out there.

I do not and I mean do not get along with hubby sister that's here in the US...

I told him since I'm waiting for passport and not sure if it will be in on time to not tell anyone our plans because we are not 100 percent sure..

well he goes and tells her our plans now she wants to go to... Like I said before we don't get along last thing I want is to spend money to go on vacation and having her there..

she has a husband and 6 kids. Me my husband and 2 kids. My mother in law has a 4 bed room house which she lives with another daughter and her 2 grandkids.12 people, 4 beds, 1 bath= nightmare

Uhhhh why does this women let me go in friggen peace she was just there 2 yrs go she is a stay at home mom, she can go anytime. Myself the time I can go is during Christmas since my job is closed for 2 weeks.

I told hubby if I know for sure she is going I'm cancelling everything and plan it for next Christmas and not saying shit to know one, I don't give a f### who gets mad. You try to do things peacefully and then shit like this comes out😡😡😡

He responded well if your not going then I'm going and you stay behind like really, I'm the one that wanted to this, we are both working over time just to have extra cash to go.

BUT NOW IM HAVING 2ND THOUGHTS. She loves drama and she has put me through hell with family so I'm done with her. We interact at family gatherings but that it, I don't have a relationship with her nor want one. She is to toxic and she is the reason why I distance my self from the whole family.. I use to talk to my mother in law everyday now it's like once a month.