my situationship

I met this guy through a mutual friend at a party and we kicked it off right away. We had so much chemistry and it felt so easy to talk to him. I’ve always had trouble with speaking to guys one on one due to personal insecurities, but when i talk to him, i feel the most comfortable i’ve ever felt, it feels like talking to someone you’ve known your whole life. We began talking daily and would hang out every now and then. I attended another party for one of my good friends birthday and she allowed me to invite him. He came over later on so i was already drunk and there was a girl younger than me that was kinda clinging onto me since she didn’t really know anyone.

In my mind, the guy and i had a really tight bond and i would’ve never thought he would flirt with another girl but what do you know, he did. He kissed the girl that i was hanging out with while i was in the same house.

At first, i felt bad for myself but shortly realized that we aren’t dating so i shouldn’t be mad or jealous. He dropped the girl and i off at our homes and the girl kept insisting that i’d be dropped off first even though her house was closer than mine. I got out when we arrived at my house and i felt miserable. A few minutes passed since they’ve left and i realized i forgot my charger at the party so i kindly asked him if he was able to pick me up again and help me out. He ended up wanting to spend more time with me anyway so we went to the house, got the charger and drove back to my place. We sparked up a solid conversation and chatted in front of my house for over two hours.

I invited him over a few times after that and we ended up kissing. It was weird at first and very unfamiliar but when we kissed a second time, it was amazing. We continued to hang out and we still do. I really like him and have liked him ever since i met him.

He came over last night and we still have a really good flow when it comes to conversations. He always holds eye contact and complements me. He even confessed that he likes me a lot. I felt over the moon and could barely sleep due to him expressing how he feels because i know it can be challenging.

I invited him over again this afternoon because i craved his presence. Again, it was a great encounter but he couldn’t stay as long because i was having family over. I walked him to his car and we kissed again, it was great, as good if not better than the last time. He pulled away but had a firm hold on my waist and asked me out. I SAID NO. WHY DID I SAY NO?!?! I really like him, he’s the best guy i’ve ever met so far, he treats me really well... The only thing is my sister believes he’s a player! I can’t shake it off my mind. To me it made sense when she brought it up because of the way he flirted with both that girl and i during the same night. I NEED ADVICE! Based on the long story of my situationship, do you believe he’s a player? I don’t know what to do.