How are your finances right now? Do you get an allowance? Do y’all have a shared bank account. Do you just mention things and he makes sure he gets it? I’m basically a stay at home mom I work about 20 hours a week in the same building we live in and I keep all my money. Then when I run out I mention stuff I want or send him whatever ss and he gets it. Sometimes I still have money and he just still gets it. We have separate bank accounts but I know all of his info and I pay zero bills.