Has your significant other ever hurt you?

Question

Everyone I have ever been with has hurt me in some way. Is this normal? How do you move past it? Are you with someone that has never hurt you?

Answer

What do you mean by “hurt”? Like physically hurting or hurting your feelings? I think it’s inevitable that a partner is going to hurt your feelings occasionally… they’re a whole different person and it takes time to fully figure someone out and learn healthy communication specific to you both. What makes the difference is if that person is willing to take accountability, make changes, and learn from any mistakes they may make or things they may say that hurt your feelings.

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Yes he broke my trust by flirting with a girl he dated when he was 10 they flirt via text and he told her "I thought the plan was I kidnap you" and also "if I was there I would give you a head massage" so last night I randomly brought it up to see how he would respond I said hey babe I have a headache will you give me a head massage and he told me no go take a migraine pill and that gave me allllll the confirmation I needed and so I said okay sure but I bet you would give head massages to other girls and he laughed it off and said no I would not but I know what I saw he can't fool me im glad I listened to my gut and I'm definitely leaving because he obviously cares more about this married bitch than me and our  6yr relationship and the fact we have a daughter together but it's alright he can have that girl she obviously has no boundaries either considering she is also married and had kids but yet is flirting her ass off with my husband they deserve eachother I feel bad for her husband tho he probably doesn't know they have been flirting

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Absolutely my husband has hurt my feelings many times.
When you live with someone. Share a life. A house. A bed. Chores. Bills. Everything. You're going to disagree, be irritable, argue. And with that comes accidentally stepping on someone's emotions here and there. 
You can't read someone's mind. Its nearly impossible to not accidentally hurt someone's feelings once in a while when you're together and share as much as a couple does. 
But- what matters is how that's handled. You and your partner should be open about how this or that affected you, open to compromise, open to apologize, and open to forgive

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I'm a sensitive potato so he's hurt my feelings but he's never hurt my physically (unless I count the numerous times he's tripped me up with his long ass legs 😂) but in all seriousness it's inevitable that at some point you're feelings will get hurt over something but physically being hurt isn't okay.

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My husband has on occasion hurt my feelings without meaning to, but he's always apologized and been receptive to feedback about why I found whatever was said upsetting. It's a very rare occurrence, maybe a handful of times in the last decade. He's certainly never physically hurt me.

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He hurt my emotions, yes. That can happen when you love someone and put yourself in a vulnerable position. But it's never been anything we can't talk about and work past.
He's never ever hurt me physically.

Has your significant other ever hurt you?

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