I confronted my in laws…

Since I had my first baby 3 years ago, my in laws went from kind, caring and treating me like family to not communicating with me or having any interest whatsoever. I don’t have a relationship with them, and I feel like I’ve been bullied / narcissistic ways. I should mention that they make the effort with my husband and our kids - so I’ve always been polite and hosted when they visit (every couple of months).

After years - my husband asked his parents what is going on… why the unkind comments, why do they no longer like me etc… they claimed denial and called me for the first time in over a year, not to apologise but to say how wrong I was for thinking that and how upset they are.

Nothing has improved from the confrontation, But my husband now thinks everything is ok because they’ve normalised their behaviour as ok - and said to him that I’m “family”.

Any advice on how to proceed after something like this? Im feeling extremely cautious.