Let’s talk MILs/bf’s mother.

So my MIL is a very nice lady. Willing to help at all costs. There’s just things that kind of rub me the wrong way. Like my mom was supposed to be the ones taking us to the hospital for my induction; and his mother took it upon herself to message my mom insisting she take us instead. Not even asking how my mom felt about it. My mom was really upset. Then I find out his mom wants to take us home too, after I already said my mom WANTS to at least take us home. To give both his mom and my mom a chance to help out. Now she’s acting different towards my other child (I had him with my now ex). Talking about all the stuff she wants to get Sophia for Christmas but never mentions anything about my son. I guess I just feel that ever since our daughter came along she focuses way too much on her grandchildren that are biologically hers, rather than the bonus kiddos. She does the same to her other daughter in law.

That’s not all tho! I’m trying to help my boyfriend establish credit, and his mother swears up and down she doesn’t have his credit card. But the account is open and he’s gaining credit from it. This poor man doesn’t even have his SSC because his mom won’t give it to him. Just like she holds his trust fund credit card and everything else that ADULTS should be able to hold in their possession with TRUST And RESPONSIBILITY. She also insisted we move within like a 10 min drive from her so she was close. She’s still close where we live now. Also wanted us to change our daughters middle name to his grandmothers first name to honor her. Idk maybe I’m just being dramatic but I feel like she wants to be in control so bad in every situation and it infuriates the heck out of me 😅 sorry if this is in shambles and all over the place, and sorry if it doesn’t really make sense. Just a lot of built up feelings I had to get out and I have nowhere else to vent about this anonymously 🙃