This is my 4th post kind of about the situation. Originally I made a post about disliking my husband's mom's. They're weed smoking hippies. Love chakras and crystals and are vegan. My husband used to be vegan, is vegetarian, but is going back to veganism. They were staying for a week and I hated it. Then I made a post about hearing my husband talk to them about how he doesn't like living here and neither do the kids. I realized he made lots of sacrifices for me. Like leaving the life he had behind to be with me. Then I talked about visiting his home town for the first time and me and his mom's had a hard time and I never realized how badly I misjudged someone. I went to my parents to Monday with my kids. We've decided to move closer to my husband's family. My mom said "So you're going to live near the dyke's?" I told them not to call them that and things became an argument. She said where we live now is fine and I said our daughter is getting bullied and she said in front of my daughter"If she lost some weight she wouldn't be getting bullied". They always bring up her weight even though she's not fat. It all went so badly. At home I was talking to my husband about it and my daughter said "I mean mom.... I'm not sure why you're so upset... Youre a lot like your parents". I said I've never referred to your grandmother's as dyke's or made comments on your weight and my daughter says to me "No but I've heard you talk badly about them for no reason and you constantly make me feel bad about myself. You're just a watered down version of Papa and granny." That... Hurt.... I had no idea my daughter felt that way. I asked my son if he felt that way and he looked away shrugging. Then asked my husband and he changed the subject...