Is it ok to have your mind made up before the baby comes to strictly formula feed and not even try breastfeeding? I breast fed with my first son and I had such an awful experience due to all the not latching and pumping and him never getting full and constantly feeling hungry that it was a buzz kill, but I’m feeling guilty due to a few people trying to persuade me saying “he will be sick more” and “he needs your immunity”, I know it’s my choice I’m just conflicted.

*** thank you to all of you who replied, I truly appreciate all the kind words of encouragement and opinions. I do think my husband and I have both chose to formula feed this one, I still have 8 weeks or so to decide but I’m pretty committed to just starting with formula and sticking to it. Everyone is right, a fed baby is best, it doesn’t always work for everyone! ❤️❤️❤️