Is it wrong of me to feel disappointed that my husband cannot do anything special for my birthday. My husband‘s birthday was on November 7 and I let him pick out what he wants me to make for dinner, me and our kids get a birthday card and usually something he needs like a new T-shirt,new belt or new pants something I know he needs and I’m getting sick and tired of doing that because my birthday is eight days after his on November 15 and I get nothing besides I get to cook the dinner I want I don’t get any birthday cards or anything besides the the card his dad gives me every year, I had to pick up my own birthday cake because he says he’s too busy to go and get one he works right next-door to a Walmart and get off work at 4 PM, my son was begging his dad to go to store and pick out a birthday cake for me on Sunday the 14th but he said no I’m too busy watching the football game because I guess that’s more important than me, I could’ve cared less if I had a birthday cake but we have a six-year-old who knows when it’s someone‘s birthday there’s birthday cake, you sing happy birthday and their gifts and he has asked his dad why doesn’t Mom have birthday gifts to open from us my husband got pissy, One year we did not get my husband anything as we were short on cash which is not the problem now but my husband got mad that we didn’t get him anything at all. Like it has been 7 years since my husband has gotten me anything for my birthday, and before it was a film camera only like $10 maybe.

Am I wrong for being pissed at him for not doing anything special for me ever and he knows I’ve been depressed and sad because I lost my mom last year and this is my second birthday without her and it’s hard and just in general around my birthday is a depressing day because my uncle died the day before my birthday 4 years ago and then 2 days that in the 17th a long time family friend also dies 4 years ago.

Please no hate or saying I’m just selfish or something I’m just sick and tired of doing everything for him and I get nothing in return.