So I just found on my husbands(married 5 years, together 16….17month baby) phone that he’s been on an online community porn sharing website. Now, I’m not naive, I know he looks at porn and has for a while- and that doesnt really bother me. BUT- he created a profile on this site, uploaded a fuckin d pic, AND has been messaging people back and forth. Dirty Talking and talking of meeting up and fucking. Idk if he actually has met up with anyone… but would you consider this cheating?