I get this was a long time ago but I truly can't understand why she would date someone like this. This guy and his friends would slap all the girls asses and snap at our bras in the 7th grade.. He would literally keep doing it and it got so annoying. Now there were girls in my class who did the same to the boys and I'm not saying they were right. I wasn't friends with those girls because gross but the guy really went the other extra mile. He stole our underwear from gym and did God knows what with it! This was a little less than 20 years ago and my sister started dating him 6 months ago. My sister really wants me to try with him because me and her are so close and she wants us to get along. I've seen him now and he isn't much of a talker when back in middle school all he did was talk. He's come to family events and just sits in the background and he has a nail biting habit and nothing grosses me out more than nail biters. Do you not know how many germs are in your nails? But he doesn't stop there. Ig when he gets really nervous he will bite his nails until they bleed and my sister knows that's her sign they should go. She said he's changed a lot and is a completely different person and wants me to at least try.

I will add that maybe he has truly changed from that pervy 13 year old. But idek how to have a conversation with him.