I am currently 31 weeks pregnant and the father to my baby has been awful to me throughout my whole pregnancy. We were together but it was an on again off again thing for a long time and now it’s just off. For months things have been bad and last night things got worse. He wished for really bad things to happen to me which I’m not really sure if I’m allowed to post what those bad things are that he wished. It’s to the point where I don’t want him around me or the baby when the baby gets here but I don’t want to be selfish or seem selfish but he’s very manipulative, controlling, mentally/verbally abusive and that’s not something or someone I want around my baby. Is it selfish of me to not want him around the baby just because of the things he’s saying and doing to me?