What would you do if your sex life with your partner sucked? We’ve been together 4 years now and I have orgasmed only ONE time, from fingering, while he has finished every single time. When we first got together I expected more from him sexually because I was a virgin and he had TONS of experience (like he’s been with over 30 women, threesomes, “gangbangs”, etc.) I thought he would be the one teaching me but the sex just wasn’t good. For starters, he’s really big. Most positions hurt me really bad (and he’ll do them anyway, or attempt to) and I tear every time we have sex. I was having sex with him and going back home to finish myself off in the shower. He tried to “eat me out” but it was actually painful. There’s other issues I’m having with the relationship besides the sex.

With my ex, we were very sexually compatible. From the beginning he was just gentle and prioritized my pleasure over his. He always made me finish. The first guy to ever do that. But outside of sex things were kind of complicated. I just don’t know what to do 🤷🏽‍♀️

- to further explain: I was with my now partner and then we split and I got with my ex. Now I’m with my partner again. It’s a very long story. It’s really starting to suck, having gone from the best sex of my life to.. the worst. And I feel so bad saying that.