UPDATE❌ Husband admitted to going out without wedding ring

I was gone for vacation back home with our toddler for 2 weeks.

When I came back home I noticed by husband being very sneaking with his phone, hiding in pocket, never leaving it out, and sleeping with it under his pillow.

My gut was telling me something was up so I asked to look at his phone and he refused. He admitted that while I was gone, he went out to bars by himself not with the intention of meeting women but did meet 2 women at a bar and exchanged Snapchat accounts. I asked if he wore his wedding ring and he said no 😔. He told me with Snapchat it was nothing sexual, but regardless I am hurt and feel like he cheated regardless

Update: I asked my husband multiple times what the true story is. 1 time he said he didn’t actually exchange numbers or Snapchat’s, another time he did and told me detailed information on the women, what they looked like etc and what they talked about. 1 was a mom and another in school still said it was never sexual…

I’ve been having gallbladder issues and went to the hospital for abdominal pain, turns out they are seeing an infection in my urine and are testing me for STDs, idk the results yet and my husband has been my only sexual partner for 9 years

@ashley yes I’m divorcing his sorry ass