My boyfriend is freakishly strong

I ask for rough sex and I get like knocked out. Okay not really but god he's so extra

It doesn't help that the man is freakishly strong. I have watched him pick up our fridge and not even flinch. You could punch him in the jaw and he wouldn't move.

Can someone please tell me if I'm just weak? He went to choke me the other night and I screamed because it hurt. There are bruises on my neck and even a bruise on my arm of his fingers.

And don't worry y'all I am fine. I ask for the roughness and when I say stop he stops and I tell him "that's way too damn hard. You are way too rough. You are being rough like you're trying to be rough with another grown ass man." -okay maybe that's a lot but dude he put bruises on my neck in 2 seconds i was upset. And he just looks so disappointed in himself like he doesn't know how to be rough without causing too much pain and putting marks all over me.

My boss is starting to think I'm in an abusive relationship because of the bruises on my neck.

I am just saying, I had some rough with my ex and he never left marks but it was still fun. I just don't get what's happening here with my partner.

You can tell he wants to be rough with me so bad he just needs to chill before he accidentally snaps my freaking neck