Still a virgin at 22…
So I’m 22 years old and still a virgin. I’ve only ever had one relationship and that was in year 9. (Lol I know right!) I don’t think I would even call that a relationship because we didn’t talk, just kiss from time to time due to the usual peer pressure.
I have 2 beautiful blonde, blue eyed, fair, thin friends who constantly have the male gaze in their directions. I am a brunette, brown eyed, olive skinned, curvier girl who can be a little shy and reserved and is a bit of a tomboy.
One of my beautiful friends has been in relationships since before puberty and currently has a boyfriend. My other beautiful friend has been in 2 relationships and is currently in the works of developing another. She also, always has they eye of attraction from the opposite sex.
At the moment both beauties are creating new experiences for themselves with guys that I have never had. I am really happy for them and super supportive of them but at the same time I’m thinking, what about me, when is this happening for me. When we go out I try to be more like them, girlier and somewhat confident, but nothing ever eventuates.
Does anyone feel like this? How do you make yourself more confident to attract the male gaze? How do you cope when your friends have all this relationship success and you do not?
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