Been seeing a guy for 5 months, but he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. He says that he sees himself with me & we waited until recently to have sex. Am I being impatient or is he dragging his feet?

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Have you asked him? It's not compulsory that he asks you, you can take the first step.

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5 months it's too long. You aren't being impatient. He should know by now what he wants. For exemple, my now husband asked me to move in after just 2 weeks of dating and after 8 months, we got married. If you know, you know

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I would have ask if we were official before having intimacy. Maybe he is the type that isn’t vocal about his feelings. Or assumes you know he is your boyfriend.

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I think it depends, people do want or need different things & some people need more time to get to know a person before committing. 
He could be dragging his feet, or he could just take things extremely slow.

Been seeing a guy for 5 months, but he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. He says that he sees himself with me & we waited until recently to have sex. Am I being impatient or is he dragging his feet?

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