Would you like to know if he is cheating?

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If you were pregnant, would you want to know if your baby daddy was/is cheating? 
I’ve been seeing this guys for almost a year now. 3 months ago I let him go because of his constant lies. I’m that time we weren’t together I found out he has a woman pregnant. An ex “supposedly”. I cried out of disappointment in myself. And of course because I love him. These last 3 months he hasn’t stopped contacting me. He didn’t know I knew. Finally this weekend I agree to meet up and we talked about it. He opened up about, to the point where I felt sorry for him. He reopened the wound. We talked like adults. But towards the end I asked him kindly that if texts me again to reach out I will contact his baby momma and tell her about all of this. I don’t want the anger to get the best in me. But my heart also feels for her. I am not the one to teach lessons here, but this man and the lies are hurting too many people on the way. If you were the pregnant woman, would you like to know about your cheating baby daddy? Or should I let Karma handle it on its own? Thank you for taking the time…

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You cant feel too bad of you continue to meet with him.

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First I want to say I'm sorry he hurt you, and hope things get better for you❤ but maybe she got pregnant during the time you guys broke up? Or are you confident that they were together during the time you both were dating? It really depends if he was actually cheating in the first place. To answer your question, I would definitely want to know if my husband was cheating on me, being pregnant won't make a difference to me, I would still want to know. If you decide to let her know, do so with proof and even be prepared that she might not take it well so after letting her know and sending whatever proof block both of them, and she can decide how she wants to proceed with the info you provided her. Good luck🍀 I hope everything works out for the best, you deserve and will find so much better 💖💛

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Why didn’t you just block him? 
A leopard (or cheater in this case) doesn’t change its spots. Sounds like he’s a master manipulator. Block him and stay out of it.

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I was once the pregnant girlfriend (been cheated on) I never knew until I was bleeding was rushed to the hospital got checked over, couple days later was told I have an STI and I knew. From being in this situation already, been told by women, pictures been sent etc. I appreciated it, so yeah if I was in this situation again I would 100% want to know

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Well, you already warned him and told him it was over. If he continues to harass you with inappropriate text messages then yeah, I would tell his baby mama just so that he would stop. Then I'd block him on everything. But who knows. Maybe they're not even together, maybe he doesn't even care about her or maybe she might come after you. Feel out the situation and do what you think is best.

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Yes i would like to know. Wouldn’t you?

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He’s a good story. Don’t believe him. He wanted you to feel bad so you didn’t blow his cover. 
If you were broken up when she got pregnant then there’s nothing to tell. If the meet up didn’t involve anything inappropriate then don’t. 
Now block him. You deserve better

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Hmm this could be tricky. Some women would appreciate it and react accordingly. Some women get very defensive and protective over their spouses and will accuse you of lying. Her being pregnant definitely complicates it, because you don’t want to trigger any panic/stress/anxiety. If it’s really bothering you, maybe you could always reach out and include “proof”? And if she reacts negatively, at least you could say that you tried.

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If you have proof I would tell her.

Would you like to know if he is cheating?

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