At a dilemma.
Quick reminder: do not judge me please. Everyone's path and time line is different.
Anyways, here we go:
So between last night and tonight I've gotten about 6 positive tests in total so it's looking like I'm pregnant.
I told a coworker and my manager (my coworker because I had no one to tell but my husband, and my manager because some things i do us strenuous and I didn't want to hurt myself) so I prefer neither of our families to know.
But I don't drive yet. I don't have a license yet, and if I don't go get blood work done this week I will be stuck waiting until after the 1st of January and my husband told me to have his dad take me in my car but his dad gives unwantes.opinions (for example he always told us we need to wait to have a 2nd baby) and if I tell him I have to go to the doctor then his first guess will be pregnancy and I dont want him to know nor do I want his opinions or anyone else to know because we will be judged for not waiting (as if thwy had a say at all).
I know once you get a positive test it's best to see an OB but I don't know how to go about that without his dad finding out.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.