What would you do? Long post bare with me pls
Hi guys! Not sure which group this would go on so I’ll just post it here.
So back in august 2020 I got a job ( I’m a nanny) they had recently moved into their new apartment and just had a baby in December 2019. When I went for the interview I saw their house was messy but I didn’t judge because I know what it’s like to be first time parents and could only imagine how hard it is working from home with a pandemic happening. They always apologized for the mess and said they would clean it up ( they NEVER did). Cleaning up to them was just sweeping and mopping. It’s now December 2021 and their house is still a huge mess. I’m talking about the baby’s room is so cluttered with items and not only that but my bosses husband leaves his dirty clothes on the floor all over the room. It’s sometimes very hard to walk without tripping on something. Their kitchen is always a mess too, their island always has things on top so it’s cluttered as well. Their stove is always dirty with crumbs/ oil etc from what they cook. They have two bathrooms, I use the husbands one and his bathroom is a mess too( dirty clothes everywhere). I’ve offered to do a deep clean and they always tell me that would be great but they never organize their clothes , items for me to do so. They have told me once they put stuff in storage I can clean up. I know most Nannie’s also do housework but that’s not in my job description ( I still do it anyways because it’s very hard to work in a messy environment). I usually clean the kitchen up , mop, sweep, clean out the fridge .But also because I believe my boss is depressed and can use the help.
My question is what would you guys do? I love being a nanny but I sometimes dread coming into work because of the mess. I wanna tell them to clean up but don’t want to be rude about it and have it cost me my job.
Forgot to mention I do the babies laundry but my boss doesn’t want me doing hers and her husband’s!
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