What would u do if your husband didn’t want to spend time with you and your kids

Idk what to do. This is a constant struggle. He wants to play video games ALLL the time. He gets home from work and it’s instantly what he wants to do. He will play until he goes to sleep. There are some nights that he will get off early and watch a movie with us . It’s now Christmas eve and this is the first year that we didn’t go to my moms house bc we have a 2 year old and newborn so trying not to be around a huge party of people this year. And any time he has spent with us today has been a problem. He’s like yeah tomorrow I’ll spend all day w you guys. I’m like wtf right now. I forced him into helping me for an hour and that’s it. I’m so upset. I have voiced this to him so many times. Any time I do ask for help he’s like what babe. Like annoyed about it. He thinks that if he cleans the house for me or anything real quick then I won’t be upset. I am expecting him to actually play with our 2 yr old and he rarely actually does.i never sleep i never get any time to myself. I’m a stay at home mom and I don’t even get to shower alone.