My husband wants another baby

I am about to have my 2nd C-section for our 2nd child and thoughout this whole pregnancy my husband repeatly has stressed and mentioned how he wasn’t ready for this 2nd baby even know he was one who wanted it more then me. Not that I didn’t want a 2nd but just he wanted it way more. This pregnancy been rough on me being a stay at home mom withhold pregnant my husband hardly home due to starting up a business I had zero help with everything minus when husband feels up to after work which he doesn’t get home til around 8pm. I don’t know how postpartum going to go wih two toddlers and I said two was my cut off due how stressful juggling all this was. He just said tonight he wants another because most families have 3 kids. I replied “I said two, you said your not ready for this 2nd and now you saying let’s have another!? If your serious will side bar that idea and talk about it when I can have another when my body ready and recovered and we can revisit the idea I am not saying no I am saying I can’t do all this alone again add another toddler and then end up with being a stay at home mom with 3 toddlers and your always gone with work.

I should add our first has epilepsy and so do I. We don’t know what in cards for baby #2 and he wants a 3rd

I am also 38 that put me having the 3rd baby at age 40.