Should I just give up?

I have a friend who has a daughter around the same age as mine. For some reason whenever her man is home from work she will cancel plans we had. This is just an example, and I’m not necessarily mad but just want advice if I should just stop. So I had asked her about 2-3 weeks ago if she’d wanna come by my house and make Christmas cookies and watch a movie while the kids played. I even told her my man would be home and if they wanted to they could escape and go play video games. She didn’t tell me until the day of that her man “surprised” her with movie tickets and now she can’t come. Now again, this isn’t the first time her man “surprises” her day of plans so she has to cancel. Should I just give up?