Moving on from here. Update

So me and my wife has talked about some stuff, we’ve put trucking striping and vanlife behind us. She wants to keep going on being together and move to Indiana, I told her I would rather us stay where we are because of how we’ve been over the past 8 months. I said if we can improve our marriage even in the slightest over the course until January 7 then yes I might move with you, but if not we might as well count it off because literally she would not hug me in front of her sister which tells me that she doesn’t even like me in the slightest. She has way to much pride and ego, and unless she puts it away then our marriage is done for and her sister had to tell her this also. Even with all the past post I’ve done all the things she has said and even the other day she said she was going to eat with her sister and a friend of hers and to go to the beauty supply store I said ok just let me know where you go and when you get back because we’re in Memphis the most dangerous city and I worry about her. Instead they didn’t do a single thing they said they were she goes and smoke some weed and has a few drinks over at there aunts house, so I just told her that this is the stuff I talk about you say one thing but turn around and do another thing and this is why I can’t trust you. So I told her that yes if I see no improvement in our marriage in a week or so then I’m not going anywhere with you because I do not feel safe. Am I wrong for any of this? And also when she was over at her aunts house there was also her friends boyfriend there so am I in the wrong?