Is it really over ?
So a few days ago my husband and I had a serious talk and within that talk he admitted he is not in love with me . He says marriage messed us up . We got married at 23&24 . We have a beautiful baby girl . Life has not been the greatest married but I completely understand my vows I understand how life can be . But he is telling me that he “tried telling me “ how he’s been feeling for 2 years and that I brushed it off . Which is not true . It’s a whole lot I can divulge into but I’m choosing not too for the sake of some privacy. We do not have our own but live with his parents . April will be 2 years that we’ve been here and it has not been the greatest at all. For starters his mom always have something to say and have opinions on what we should and shouldn’t do with our daughter . He rarely stands up to her because he claims he just don’t care no more . Which I call bs he doesn’t want me saying anything to her to avoid problems with me and her but if she speaks on my child then I’m gonna say something especially if it’s out of line . But back to what I’m saying from our conversation he says he’s tried . We went to one counseling and he says the therapist was bias and feminist and only sided with me and didn’t tell me anything I’ve done wrong … I even told him we can find someone else and he could choose he had no comment for that . He’s constantly projecting and blaming me for the pressure of everything and saying I have expectations that’s too much and he can’t make me happy yada yada . I have no expectations anymore because he’s gonna do what he want and he’s showed me that over and over . Now don’t get me wrong I’ve messed up countless times with my mouth getting me in trouble but I’ve sincerely apologized but he seems to hold on after accepting my apology . Well he says he love me but he don’t think marriage is for us . Do I just walk away from the marriage or do I stay and fight
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