If your boyfriend/husband turned you down for sex for months straight but he continued to masturbate to porn pictures and even saved them to his phone, would you consider this cheating?

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I wouldn’t consider it cheating but it’s definitely an issue that needs to be addressed because it’s directly affecting your sex life.

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The boundaries my partner and I agreed on surrounding porn is that it should never overtake our sex life. 
If it did overtake, then he’d be betraying a boundary. I probably wouldn’t classify it as cheating but definitely still as betrayal

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No. I would consider it an addiction.

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If he’s continuing it no. It was allowed from the jump. So I wouldn’t say it’s cheating why now? But I’d leave for the reason of turning me down but still getting off and denying me for months. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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He use to. We sat down talk about it. It was so bad that I was writing down what he would say when he turned me down. I even took his phone from him an showed him that every time he would turn me down he was clearly watching porn. told him that if he would like to continue watching porn then we have to have sex at least once a week or else he needs to stop watching porn. I brought up every point that I am more than willing to have sex I'm horny all the time. after we had that conversation he started actually wanting to have sex.been almost 2 years he hasn't watched porn.i don't care if he does watch it but when porn because more important then us having sex that were it because the problem.

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Not cheating (unless only fans or interactive or paid subscription ones) but concerning for the future of your relationship

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Not cheating but it would definitely effect my self esteem and would hurt me deep down because physical touch is my main love language. Sex is very intimate to me and I’ve done through this and had to end the relationship. It’s hard to miss that physical intimacy from your partner

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It’s a boundary that shouldn’t be crossed. But not cheating, it’s an issue because it’s affecting your sex life.

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Yeah… that’s kind of where I am at with my fiancé. Time for everything but me. Everything has to be perfect and go his way, but never a spare moment to make me feel valued or pretty or desired. Gets exhausting.

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Not cheating but disrespectful

If your boyfriend/husband turned you down for sex for months straight but he continued to masturbate to porn pictures and even saved them to his phone, would you consider this cheating?

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