I had to cut my mom off....

I have a teenage son who has cancer and he's been really through it. He's been in and out of the hospital lately. He gets kind of violent sometimes. My daughter is hurt seeing her brother like this. He's also lost complete control over his bowel and bladder. At the hospital we don't let the CNA's change him because it embarrasses him. Especially the ones who are closer to his age. So we do his toiletries and still do now. One of his friends who he honestly hasn't seen in the last year messaged him asking to go have fun at the mall and he missed him. My son has isolated himself and I said he should still have a social life. Which pissed him off and made him throw a book at me saying he can't even change himself and his friends already pity him and how much worse it will be when they see he can't even use the bathroom like a regular person. My mom showed up not to much later unannounced, uninvited to bitch at me saying she needs help moving and my brother's won't help her. They don't fuck with my mom because she allowed them to get molested and never apologized or tried to get us back from CPS custody. I'm the only one who forgave her. I told her she can't come over uninvited and she said we never do anything for her and she has to show up to our house for help and the fact that she went through labor for us and she doesn't care. Then she saw my son and for real said to him "Ugh. You look like death Are you still using diapers?" He flipped her off... Called her a bitch... And went to his room. I yelled at her and she didn't care and thinks she can do no wrong and said I need to get onto him for doing that to her. I said "No. Because I should have a long time ago". Kicked her out and slammed the door in her face. Then heard her call my a cunt.... I'll trade mom's with anyone.

@Madds chemotherapy is messing with his mind. I was already warned this type of stuff could happen. I've had to deal with my kid screaming and being held in restraints at the hospital. I can deal with this.

@Nikki these things get discussed in therapy. He takes it much better with his therapist there as a mediator. Otherwise he thinks we're against him.