How many women cook for their men?

Do you cook for your man and how often?

My husband keeps saying i dont do anything for him. We have a toddler i take care and i work as a freelancer full time. Often i wake up at 3 even 4 am to do work on the computer and i sleep late as well. He receives benefits and doesnt work. We go half and half in rent, bills and food but he wants me to be like a traditional wife, who cooks and cleans everyday. I do cook but not often. I usually cook rice to last a few days and then make options to eat with every 2 or 3 days. Im just feeling overwhelmed. How do i work to pay my half of bills and still be cooking and cleaning and caring for a toddler?

Ps i do like to cook, but we go half and half in everything including groceries . He has so much free time because he doesnt work. Our 2 yr old demands my attention more. I dont mind cooking but i cannot do it every day.