Legal advice

How much does a custody lawyer charge? and how long does it usually take for the court to give its decision? Because I’m honestly tired of dealing with the abusive narcissistic ways of child’s father. He literally said I was going around telling a pity story on why my child can’t spend the night with him or be alone with him . He makes it out like I’m bitter and he never does anything . PITY like you mean the *** you put me and him through from abuse, threats about killing me, wishing my baby would die before he was even born, and pulling/grabbing on him. He goes on Facebook and Rants on and on about him not seeing his son but I offer SUPERVISED VISITS (he doesn’t take them), he disrespects me and my family, and acts like he is father of the year but haven’t did anything for my child. Everyone always sees the post about how I’m not letting him see his child but they never the see post about him saying he wanted his son to die. I just don’t understand. I only asked this man to to get HELP meaning a therapist or somebody who can help him and his situation. His mother said he needed therapy but now she saying he only has a few issues but he even said himself that he is mentally unstable but now all of sudden nothing is wrong with him. I’m really thinking about cutting off his entire family just too get away from all the drama. I already have lost social media just because every time I see the posts I automatically start feeling bad like everything is my fault but I know I do everything to make sure my child has his father in his life.