Hi ladies. Look I know abstinence is a crazy idea in this day in age but lately that’s the direction I’m heading. I’ve been on two types of BC over the last 5 years. I was off BC for 2 months and just wow I was myself again, periods were better, better sex, etc. Except I got pregnant and had an abortion. I’m back on BC and I’m literally at my lowest. I asked my bf if maybe we could stop having sex so I don’t have to be on BC but he made me feel stupid for even suggesting it. Honestly I keep just not taking it because of how much I hate it! I went to the gyno and she told me not to stop taking it but honestly why take something that makes me miserable? I love my bf and our relationship but I’m sick of sacrificing my mental health for something that he mainly enjoys. I know there are other methods but honestly since my pregnancy I don’t want to risk it happening again. Sorry I really have no one to talk to about this with. Any opinions, advice, or even just saying you understand what I’m going through would really help❤️