My daughter is almost 3 and my son is a 1 and a half, they’re not bad.. but my daughter is at the age where if she doesn’t get her way she screams and cries and my son is starting to pick up on her habits. I try not to yell when I feel like I’m about to get really angry I take a moment and breathe and calm down for a second but then they go back to having their tiny little attitudes. I do spank and punish them when necessary (I won’t raise heathens)! But im trying to be more calm and talk to them instead of yelling but it’s so hard when I get so irritated so quickly… what are some ways to help this??? I feel like an absolute terrible mother when they go to bed and all I did was yell at them when they don’t understand why! 😔😔