My whole life I’ve been a pretty weird kid. I was rejected by every guy I liked up until late highschool. Even then, I was seen as chubby - because I was.

Now, I’ve lost around 50 pounds in the span of a single year (Due to stress and college). And since that weight drop, I’ve felt more desired by men and women alike than ever before.

I don’t know how to handle it.

Honestly, it’s almost like I’m unprepared. An attractive guy will hit on me and I almost immediately see him as the only guy around who is attracted to me. That’s what I’ve always known.

And then someone else will show interest in me and another and another and it almost makes me feel like I have too many options.

I don’t mean to sound vain or insincere. This is extremely uncomfortable for me. I tend to dislike male attention in the first place. I don’t know what to do with it and I hate rejecting people.

Has anyone else gone through this? Any tips?