I don’t really know where to start this other than the fact that I absolutely do not enjoy sex.

I have been with my partner for almost 3 years the first 6-8 months we were having sex extremely often and now not at all (mostly because of me).However after those months we did go through a rough patch but nothing major like cheating that would cause me to be suddenly turned off.

I just simply get not turned on and sometimes even grossed out by it, I do not like hands anywhere near my vagina but am Ok with my partner going down on me. If my partner goes down on me prior to having sex I tend to enjoy it a bit more but that’s essentially the only time.

I would say it could be a partner issue. However, I am also not masturbating because it either doesn’t cross my mind or I just honestly can’t, even though I used to masturbate quite often. I also do not fantasize or get turned on with anything whatsoever, maybe i’m asexual?

I’m honestly just wondering if anyone has experienced this before or if they have any insight on what todo?!