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Really fucking bitch and m### f###. And the problem you have is if it showed your phone was off or not? Please girl don't let people treat you like that. This guy has no respect for you. And no respect = no love.
Can someone please explain this reaction?
Hello everyone.
Last night my bf and we’re a bit annoyed of each-other. To be quite honest I think he was pissed for whatever reason and I was being pushy about it. I think he was already having a bad day because he was acting very serious with me. I showed him a tik tok and he didn’t seem too pleased with the type of content I follow. Content is pretty much hip hop choreography, fitness Influencers. Some girl was lifting so heavy. I said “damn I aspire to be like her one day”
He told me I’m annoying and rather not text. Ok😕
I went about my day. Got Starbucks in the morning before heading to work and posted a cute Starbucks pic and captioned it “don’t know what I’m more obsessed with: gym or caffeine”
Keep in mind he had not texted me since the night prior at 9pm. It was already the next day 1pm. He texts me at 4:55 pm.
So iPhone users, as you know if the text is blue it’s iMessage which means you’re texting another iPhone user or that you’re both using data or wifi to send texts. If it goes green as “text message” then either that persons phone is off, you’re blocked or just don’t have wifi or data …
I guess my texts weren’t coming through. It came in as regular text message but my phone was NOT off and he was not blocked.
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He is abusive!!!!! Even if you "did something wrong" his response is unacceptable.Abuse is about power and control. Before I even read the messages, it occured to me that he doesnt like your gym/fitness thing because it makes him feel threatened. Abusers need to make sure she is "beneath him" and do not like their partners to feel empowered. So I thought, hmmm, he may not like that youre empowering yourself because he is controlling/abusive, red flag....then I saw his texts....bingo.
Mo
Also, even if this was the first time....he revealed something to you about his character. Dont ignore that.
I’m gonna be brutally honest, everyone’s gone hate me but I gotta say it. Reading your text back and forth, I know this isn’t the first time he talks to you like this- but the most mest up part about all this is that in that relationship you think it’s normal. Just the beginning of your post it starts off with him acting out “cause he was having a bad day.” So are you telling me that the next day when he texted you, the way he disrespected you cussing you out and all, was the first time he’s done that and you’re shocked? Huh? I’m asking cause from your comment you seemed chill like it’s normal for a women to get talked to like that by their partner- and your first concern is that the phone was not off and he was wrong to think it was off… Like FAM did you not notice he was straight up cussing you out, calling you out of your name? Talking to you like you’re some fool in the street???I don’t think the issue here is explaining why he reacted like this (cause this has no excuse) the issue here is WHY would you ever think this is just a reaction?? No no no, this is who he is and if you don’t leave this guy and you consent with this dude moving forward- just know he ain’t the one at fault from here on.. You are cause this type of behavior no matter what the situation is, shouldn’t have happened PERIODT…..
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