Husband won’t do foreplay anymore

My husband and I used to have great sex, but ever since we moved to a new state a year and a half ago it has lacked. He has had stressful job after stressful job and he sees sex as a chore whenever I want it. When he wants it, which varies depending on how work is going, he wants to hump my backside a little bit and then get straight to the point. While I’m sitting there and I’m turned on but I am not turned on downstairs yet. After we moved he slowly stopped doing foreplay and now it is nonexistent for me. He doesn’t want to kiss during sex because it makes him too excited because he usually doesn’t last long at all and we have to take breaks. It really bothers me that he stopped doing foreplay and I told him that it makes me feel embarrassed and disgusting, it makes me feel like he isn’t that sexually attracted to me anymore. All he says is that he is sexually attracted to me and that he knows he needs to do more for me during sex. Has anyone else dealt with this or a similar situation?