Here’s a spark note version of my situation.

I’ve been seeing this guy for two months.

We’ve wanted to date for 3 years but we’re never able to align our lives until now.

He recently (about 6 months ago) ended things with someone he was in an on and off again relationship with for 5 years. (We wanted to date every time they broke up but again alignment was off) I asked him yesterday where he saw us going and he told me that this is everything he’s ever wanted and everything is perfect, but he’s just not happy. Not with us, but in general just depressed. He’s starting therapy to get himself mentally happy and himself again, but until then he doesn’t want to make us official because he says we’ve wanted this for so long it’s not fair to me if we start off this relationship with the worst version of himself. Thoughts?