Me and my boyfriend have A 3 year old daughter and he mentioned to me randomly the other night he wanted baby #2. And he wants to try for a boy. But he told me when he was drinking , he wasn’t drunk he’s was probably buzzed but he just went back to work and we live in a studio where all 3 of us barley fit. I told him he needs to get himself a car because we share just 1 car. He talks about how he wants to move out and get a bigger place at least a 1 bed room but it’s hard in California (LA county). I told him there’s a lot of stuff that needs to happen before baby #2 comes . We need another car a bigger place. I also told him I don’t want him going out every weekend with his friends. (He did it when I was pregnant the first time and off and on ever since.) He even wants to go to Indiana for a job opportunity coming up but I wouldn’t want to be pregnant and alone while he’s out over there working. I know a lot of women have gone through that. We haven’t talked about it sense but we had both agreed that once my daughter goes into school I would be going back to work and I also mentioned to him what would be the point on getting a job and then getting pregnant having baby #2, to quit and be a stay at home mom all over again. And he just stood quiet and didn’t know what to say. I told him that it wouldn’t make sense for me to work and then quit but like I said we haven’t talked about it since then and that was a few days ago.