Trigger warning possible miscarriage buy no one knows for sure 🤷‍♀️

I think I had or am having a miscarriage but I haven’t bled yet. Is that normal for 6-7 weeks loss? Or could it be ectopic? Here’s the story:

Would have gotten pregnant the week of 1/10/22. LMP was 12/24/21. I’m always regular, but may have ovulated late. I missed my period in January and started testing. On 1/27/22 I got my first faint positive. Since then it’s been a mixture of faint positives, negatives and squinters. I haven’t gotten a dye stealer or really dark lines. But, most tests were super easy to see. Digitals were always negative. Up until Saturday and Sunday. I took three at different times of day. Pregnant, not pregnant and pregnant were the results. I was shocked I finally got a positive on a digital and decided to call it my BFP. I was so happy and I was also out of tests. But then went for an ultrasound on Tuesday. There was NOTHING in there. No sac, nothing. Tubes looked clear I guess. I am very over weight so I’m wondering if maybe that messed with the ultrasound readings. They did abdominal and transvaginal though.

So I left there confused yet again. Oh and I had blood work done 6 days ago from today that was negative. My hpts generally test positive at at night. From 9pm on.

I feel/felt pregnant big time. Abdomen: feels almost hard in my uterus sometimes tightening. I’m already nauseous and I’ve never been this hungry in my life. The saltier the better. Im also super emotional. Had a good cry after I realized something I was cooking was expired and that was a few hours ago. I really wanted it. Also called to see if the dr was in today (I was told to do this) and the secretary’s tone of voice made me cry and hang up on her. All she did was answer what I asked…

I may have been earlier than 6 weeks, but now I’m getting negative tests as of today. I even diluted to rule out the hook effect. However my positives are again late at night so I’m going to test in about an hour or two before I give up. My dr. doesn’t seem very concerned about a pregnancy since nothing was on ultrasound. Im getting repeat blood work along with a million hormone tests on Friday morning to see what’s going on. I was really hoping it was a baby, but I think it’s gone, or it never was and there’s something wrong with me 😩