So my fiancé and I have been together for a year and half. He confessed to me that he has been unfaithful because I have been pushing him away with my lack of accountability. I’ve been through a lot in my life and have a big trauma that I am currently doing therapy to overcome. It’s getting better and my lapses on my trauma taking over have been less but not enough to not have pushed him away. I told him I didn’t want to be with him because he cheated and he told me that I pushed him to do so because of how I acted and even then he still wants to be with me.

My heart is so torn and I don’t know what to do. I love him and he says he loves me too but I just need to be better. He apologized and took full responsibility on his wrongdoings but I still feel betrayed.

Please advise girls! All I know is that I am still going to continue to work on being a better me. No matter if I’m with him or not.

Thank you all in advance.