So today me and my bf were in the shower and y’know he was sliding his 🍆 between my cheeks and that was ok and i said i don’t want it to go in my 🍑 and he “accidentally put it in. I got out and was on the floor crying it hurt so much. This isn’t the first time he’s done something like this where he’s gone over the top. One time I was shaking my 🍑 and he asked to do anal and i said no and a few seconds later he shoves his finger up there and once again i’m crying out of pain. There’s also been a few times he’s done stuff like that but in my 🐱. I don’t want to over react though. He always says it’s an accident and i don’t know what to think.There’s also been times that he’s accidentally hit me or choked me and he says he never does it out of anger and that it’s an accident because of his adhd that it doesn’t click in his brain what he’s done and that it’s just impulsive and that he’s hyperactive. I really don’t want to end it with him.I truly love his so much and we have been through so much together and have been together over a year. I just need advice