Nipple stimulation 🤮

Is it just me but does someone playing with your nipples turn you off?

So I’ve never been a fan of having my nipples played with in any manner. It really does nothing for me. Anyhow since breastfeeding my baby (now a toddler) my feelings towards my partner touching my nipples sends shivers down my spine and not in a good way!

I feel bad cos he is very much a breast man but It actually makes me feel so uncomfortable and weird. I could be getting in the mood then he goes to them and my body shuts down, drys up!!

I’ve told him so many times that I really don’t like it but in the moment he goes in with his mouth or worse uses his fingers to play with them!!!!! 😭🤢 any tips on how to actually get stimulated by nipple play… or is this normal and I’m not alone? Advice please