Sharing?!

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My husband is VERY turned on by the thought of “sharing” me whether it be with a woman or a man.  He said he doesn’t even necessarily want to be apart of it, just watch. Has anyone done this? It makes me nervous. We’ve kind of looked into it here and there, but it’s hard for me to commit to. I’m not entirely sure why though haha

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Don’t ever feel pressured to fulfill someone else’s kinks if you don’t feel comfortable.
Have long conversations about it before you entertain something you’re unsure of. 
Ask him more about what it entails if you are considering it.

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Personally, I love being with my husband and another guy. I feel crazy empowered. We play with other couples too. But you’ve got to be open and honest about how you feel about it.  And if you think you might be uncomfortable with being with someone else, then don’t. The worst thing ever would be to wake up regretting it.

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I wouldn’t be ok with this at all. I would feel like a toy or something…my body means way to much than to be giving it out like candy just so someone else can smile and get off…in my personal experience it’s disgusting

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Everyone has kind of fantasies and whatnot. That doesn’t mean it should become a reality. You said he’s your husband? Well the point of marrying someone is to be faithful to that person and bringing someone else into your guys bedroom breaks that weather it’s wanted or not. If you do this it will not be good for your marriage and it could bring up jealousy on his part or insecurities and discomfort on yours and something this intimate isn’t supposed to be for some random stranger. If it was there’d be no point in marriage. I know this is an unpopular opinion but I know people who have tried this and every single person has broken up or gotten divorced because while in your head it may seem great the reality is not at all like the fantasy.

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Wait…. It’s coming to me…. Yes… I predict with 90% certainty the end of your marriage shortly after!

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My guy always asks about the sex stories with the men I had before him. It’s still weird, but the more I detail my old times the more he gets turned on. He asks me to fuck someone else, but I told him a big hell no. I told him during sex in sexy and dominating way “you’re the only one I want in my pussy ever, but I’ll tell you everything you want to hear what someone else did to this pussy.” He hasn’t asked me since. I make stuff up a lot, and of things I want him to do to me. Lol So everyone wins! Maybe try that and I hope it helps!!

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The reality of this is very different than the idea. Most couples won’t work this way. A few do but those ones are BOTH 100% into it. 
I personally got to a point I felt really used & taken advantage of. My ex was really into it to the point he wanted me to find men on Craigslist!! That was the end of us.

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It’s borderline cheating, even if they are aware of it and for their pleasure. Regrets and guilt may come later that’s why. If you’re unsure and nervous, there is absolutely no need for you to commit to it.

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personally it love it. im a very submissive person and love to be treated like a toy so my n my partner had a looooong conversation about boundaries and safe words and what we liked etc then we started looking for what we would like in another person.
fast forward to now that *person* is his best friend they hang out all the time with and without me and we all share intimate moments and ive never been satisfied the way i have by having 2 people instead of one.
it all goes down to personal preference and  !!consent, boundaries and communication are key!!

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My husband and i have done this a few times but we had rules in place everyone had to super open and honest how they felt the whole time. We loved it but it was just a fantasy of mine we did it a few times got bored and moved onto something else.

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